Friday, 22 March 2013

The Steubenville Rape case: A Shocking Picture of Modern Sexism

It seems sadly appropriate that no sooner had I published my last blog post, lamenting sites where women are objectified and dehumanised, that the disgustingly sexist coverage of the recent Steubenville rape case hit the headlines.

Sentenced to a mere one and two years respectively in a juvenile correction facility, Trent Mays and Ma'lik Richmond were found guilty of rape after performing sex acts on an intoxicated sixteen year old girl at and between a series of parties last August. Perhaps most disturbing was the ugly influence of social media, with images of the naked victim being circulated, a friend of the defendants tweeting "Song of the night is definitely 'Rape Me' by Nirvana," and Mays even texting "Yeah dude, she was like a dead body. I just needed some sexual attention."

The group mentality of the crime is truly frightening. At least three other teenagers, who provided eyewitness testimony, were present at the time of the assault, with a third party even filming the attack.

This event is just another worrying hint that the "lad" culture is going too far. Just earlier this week when discussing my latest blog, I was asked "Do you really think that people who joke about rape actually think it's OK?" Well apparently some of them do. The shockingly cavalier attitudes of the rapists and the friends who stood by and watched are a horrific indictment of a certain male culture, where drunkenness, promiscuity, or manner of dress make women acceptable targets for assault. Perhaps used to misogynistic attitudes particularly pervading in an internet driven world, the defendants saw no problem tweeting a photo of the passed out naked girl, or even posting a video where the friends joked about the attacks.

Worryingly, recent evidence suggests that even the defendants football coach knew about the rape, hiding information so that his 'star players' football careers weren't threatened. Apparently in this shockingly anti-woman case, the hobbies of two rapists were more important than protecting a minor. In fact, it seems a wide proportion of the Steubenville community were aware of the case via its mocking coverage through social-media, and were involved in a kind of cover-up; the case was not brought to court until blogging group Anonymous independently collected evidence and campaigned for justice for the victim. Before this, an apparent reverence for these local football heroes prevented any real progress getting them prosecuted.

These horrific attitudes have continued into national media, with CNN lamenting the threatened futures of the defendants in a recent broadcast, and pitying them for their inclusion on the Sex Offenders Register, a move which will help protect other women from becoming victims.



The Steubenville Rape case has become a tragic illustration of how dangerous modern sexist attitudes really can be. Just a glance at the YouTube comments section on this video says it all: "if you dress like a slut your chances of getting raped increase," asserts one user, whilst another suggests that the victim should have had better "personal accountability" by "not sexualising one's self by dressing in a mini skirt and inviting unecessary, unwanted, and uninvited attention." This assumption is in spite of all images of the victim, included her clothing, being heavily pixelated.

People may say that modern misogyny is harmless, and even a joke, but the Steubenville rape case has shown otherwise. As long as these attitudes exist, they have the ability to invade reality, and horrifically distort the reactions, and thus access to justice, of bystanders, the legal system and the media.

Sunday, 17 March 2013

Student Sexism: The REAL Problem of the "Lad Culture."

As an avid reader of Glamour mag and (mostly) hardworking student, one article in particular caught my eye last month.



"Is this what it takes to get a degree?" screamed the stark headline, plastered against a background of women in tiny outfits. "You expected wild night at uni." the byline continues "But what about being pressured to strip and called a slut? When did that become OK? GLAMOUR investigates the rise of campus sexism-- and what it means for women everywhere."

Writer Elizabeth Day certainly does a good job of exploring the darker side of university sexism. Citing the "lad" culture every student is familiar with, Day bemoans sex-act simulation at sporting initiations, degrading fancy-dress themes and provocative night-club games. "The breed of sexism on show is darker, more endemic and more troubling than ever before," Day tells us adding that modern university life displays "a misogynistic campus culture that's got seriously out of hand."

And sadly, Day is not far off the mark. Although she seems to miss the fact that the sexist culture depicted is only really associated with certain, often sport based, spheres of university life, Day is spot on for much of the article. Far from being a place where women are respected for their equal intellectual abilities, a disappointing amount of male-female social interaction at University is based around the unfortunate "lad vs slag" dichotomy. In a befitting patriarchal twist, the "slut culture" is characterised only in opposition to the "lad culture." And it really is a feud where women are both enemy and victim.

This frightening trend is most apparent on sadly popular site www.unilad.com. Discussing one-night stands, a recent article boasts "by the time the DJ slips on Kings of Leon, most lads will have bought enough double-vodka-redbulls to convince some skank in a short skirt that engaging in a bit of a naughty snog on the dance floor is a great idea." It then launches into advice on how to prevent said girl staying the night, suggesting getting it over and done with before actually getting home. "Asking if you can slip a few fingers in first might help you figure out whether she’s a good candidate for taxi sex. If she manages to keep quiet but likes it then get her on top and get going so you can drop her off before she figures out your address." Uni Lad recommends. How hard you need to work on an excuse depends "on whether your bird has standards and how horny she is."
"Uni Lad" Logo

Horrifically objectified, in this "lad" culture, women are set up in a strange paradoxical state as both objects of desire and the enemy who serve no other function other than sexual, and thus become an embarrassing problem as soon as they have fulfilled this role. Disturbingly, Uni Lad followers have even responded to feminist protests with comments like "shows why we shouldn't allow wenches to be educated" after the site landed itself in hot water for its description of rape as "surprise sex."

Now, of course I'm not saying that this is representative of University life as a whole. Throughout my time as a student I've met plenty of interesting, respectful men, and have a lot of male friends. However, unfortunately the extremity of the misogynistic "Uni Lad" culture frequently returns university social structures into a primitive state of male/female separation whereby the primary function of interaction is sexual. Although many see Uni Lad as a joke, or that most mitigating of all things, "banter," unfortunately the extremity of Uni Lad is merely an elevated version of pervading misogynistic attitudes across the higher education social structure.

However, the real problem is not just university-based; the causes of student sexism go much deeper. Sites like "True Lad" and project "Everyday Sexism" show that sadly, this culture is widespread. Away from home for the first time, and in a strange pseudo-reality where the impression you make on people you meet doesn't impact your professional life, University is merely the ideal festering-ground for already heavily present patriarchal attitudes.

"Pimps and Hoes" themes instantly put men in power over the sexualised female
Away from the influence of family and in an environment where there are no serious repercussions for sexism, misogyny is given the perfect opportunity to flourish. The University lifestyle which advocates excessive partying and casual sex also means that men don't find it necessary to show women the respect necessary in most areas of society for developing a functional relationship, as girlfriends are highly incompatible with the ideals of the Uni Lad.

Most of the problems raised by Day's article henceforth stem from this culture; as men both encourage for their own gain, yet simultaneously deplore and mock female promiscuity and revealing clothes, both women and university night-life come to cater to this strange desire, with "slutty" or patriarchal themes, such as 'Pimps and Hoes' or 'Slag and Drag' being defined by the simple pre-requisite that women should dress as a mythical stereotype of female sexuality. This elevates everyday-misogyny from childish web-pages into the mainstream, increasingly redefining the uni social space as one divided by the binaries of the slut/lad culture; instantly a vicious circle promoting an ugly brand of sexism is created.

Ultimately, I too have partaken in the odd pimps-and-hoes fancy dress, and even seen it as a bit of harmless fun. But what's important not to forget is the danger of the underlying attitudes which have made these events so popular. Campus sexism that promotes a culture where women are viewed primarily in light of their sexual capacity, or how they look, is a sad twist for educated females, taking us back to a pre-feminist era which simply shouldn't be in play in the twenty-first century.

Wednesday, 6 March 2013

10 TV shows that will take over your life

Made In Chelsea
10. Made In Chelsea
Pseudo-reality television set in the playground of the rich and famous, Made in Chelsea is a juicy, drama filled TV treat. Filled with panning shots of expensive cocktails, glamorous venues, and designer dresses, Made in Chelsea is a show more made for lusting after the stars swish London pads and never ending supply of champagne than for actual storylines, but it's the ultimate in gossipy escapist television.

9. Supernatural
If you're a fan of old-school horror, action, mystery and gorgeous men, Supernatural is the show for you. The story of two demon-fighting, monster-hunting, ghost-busting brothers, Supernatural uses urban legends to propel its fantasically gothic plot forward. With each episode largely self-contained, with a few major revelations along the way, Supernatural is an easy one to dip and delve into.

New Girl
8. New Girl
The cutest sitcom around, New Girl is hilarious feel-good viewing. Currently on season three, the programme is a wry sidelook at male-female relationships, picking up when a downtrodden Jessica Day moves in with three male flatmates after a break up. Although generally a great programme, New Girls main appeal largely lies in Zooey Deschanel's starring role. Cute, quirky and awkward, Zooey makes Jess one of the most lovable and funny TV characters around.

7. How I Met Your Mother
Now in it's eighth year, this slow burning show is based around unlucky-in-love protagonist Ted Moseby narrating in excruciating detail the events that led up to him meeting the mother of his children. Although perhaps now a little stretched out, How I Met Your Mother is full of heartwarming stories of friendship and relationships in easily digestable 20 minute chunks. Extremely easy to watch, getting caught up in the life of these New Yorkers is inevitable.

Breaking Bad
6. Breaking Bad
Multi-award winning drama Breaking Bad opens with the main character, Chemistry teacher Walter White, being diagnosed with terminal cancer. However, don't let this less than cheery premise put you off. Often dark and beautifully written, the subsequent story of how Walt teams up with one of his former students to cook and sell meth is original, absorbing and thought-provoking. Although the show loses momentum somewhat a few seasons in, meaning I'm still working my way through it, it's well worth a watch.

Prison Break


5. Prison Break
Ultimately addictive, Prison Break is another dark yet extremely intelligent drama. Set in the fascinating world of American high-security prisons, Prison Break is the story of two brothers, one sentenced to death for a crime he didn't commit, and another who has purposely ended up in prison as part of an elaborate scheme to free his brother. Unfortunately, the genius of this show tails off in the second season, which features the escapees after the planned break, but the first season still remains unmissable television.


 4. Girls
Girls isn't just a TV show; it's a way of life. Starkly honest and hilarious, Girls follows a group of 20-something graduates struggling to find their way through adulthood in New York. Although the second season has been a little underwhelming following the groundbreaking realism of the first season, Girls still remains one of the most genuine TV shows I've encountered. For a full review check out my previous blog, 'GIRLS just wanna have fun' http://what-katieb-did.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/girls-just-wanna-have-fun.html

3. Gossip Girl
Although primarily pitched towards teenage girls, Gossip Girl is still one of my feel-good TV faves. Wrapping up last summer after six spectacular seasons, Gossip Girl follows super wealthy Manhattan teens, taking off in their senior year of high school. Bitchy, gossipy and addictive, Gossip Girl is a veritable feast of twists and drama, centering around love, family and friendship. Even better, the fantastic wardrobe department serves up a myriad of lust-worthy designer outfits, making the show almost worth a watch for its fashion credentials alone.

Gossip Girl

2. Game of Thrones
Fantasy TV at its very finest, HBO show Game of Thrones' upcoming third season is currently the most anticipated event of my month. Set in the fictional continents Westeros  and Essos, Game of Thrones is a medieval-esque epic about warring dynasties battling for the control of the legendary Iron Throne. The noble families of seven kingdoms are followed in an endlessly complex plot which tackles history, fantasy, family, sexuality and high drama in its tension rich script.



Game of Thrones
Lost
1. Lost
Probably the most addictive TV show around, Lost takes the typical marooned-on-a-desert-island script to new levels of brilliance. After opening with a plane crash, expect an insane number of twists that totally transports the show beyond its original premise. Perfectly interspersing scenes of island life with flashbacks of the characters post-crash life, Lost strikes a perfect balance between the challenges and dynamics of island life, and an entirely imaginative slant; as the series progresses, mysterious monsters, bizarre mythology and science fiction are presented with stunning realism. Although belief must be somewhat suspended for later seasons, when time traveling kicks in, by this point you'll be hooked enough to absorb every revelation the programme throws at you.

Sunday, 3 March 2013

Why Curvy Girls Can Wear Crop Tops

Living in the depths of Yorkshire, sunshine becomes something of a rarity in the winter months. After weeks of dreary weather and having neatly packaged away my summer wardrobe (admittedly mainly the same as my winter wardrobe but without thick tights) I had given up hope of venturing out in anything less than three layers until at least after Easter.

And yet this week, good old British weather surprised us all by showing us the sun. Admittedly it barely hit 10 degrees Celsius, but this didn't stop us emerging bleary eyed from our darkened rooms, blinking in the unexpected light and dashing to find the nearest bit of grass to perch on.

I even made the rookie error of racing into my hallway in a floor length chiffon skirt and jumper before being hastily reprimanded by my housemate for my over-enthusiasm and sent back to change into a sensible jeans and hoodie combo.

However, a quick restyle later, and I was eagerly diving onto my computer to see what I needed to scour ebay for in preparation for a now surely imminent premature summer. And one trend seemed to keep coming up; a phrase that makes the curvy girls heart sink: crop top.

Now, I love crop tops. Oddly 80/90s retro, a well worn crop top is sexy, fun and on-trend. But here's the problem: well-worn requires washboard abs and a pancake-flat tummy, no exceptions. At a size 12 to 14, the stratospheric rise of the crop top had me enviously eyeing up my friends last summer as I stuck to my dip-hems and securely tucked-in blouses.

That was until an impromptu night out a few weeks ago. Raiding my fashion conscious friends wardrobe, I was more than a little dubious when a long leopard print skirt and tiny top were suggested.

As soon as I put it on, I loved it. Hoisting the skirt up much higher than my size-8 friend would, only a tiny sliver of the slimmest part of my waist was revealed, house-of-mirrors style trickery that if anything made me look much smaller than a curves-covering top would have done.





Truly high-waisted bottoms are the secret to bringing curvy-girls and crop tops together. Whilst the more daring amongst us can flash a few inches of stomach, skirts and shorts can be worn so high that all is covered whilst still getting in on a fashion-friendly trend. It's the tip how-to-wear guides featuring boob tubes with low slung trousers and barely-there skirts simply don't pick up on, unfailingly flashing reams of flesh on super skinny girls.
                                         

So here's a few of the best outfits to flatter the curvy crop.



Lace Bardot Crop Top, £18, Topshop
 Midi Skirt with Pleats, £28, ASOS



                



For a beautiful retro vibe, a 50s style lacy crop top and chiffon midi skirt is perfect. Pull the skirt up a little higher than pictured and prepare to bring vintage summer style back. Remember that fitted crop tops are fine, but always go for a larger size; too tight crops are ultimately unflattering.
Kainda Wet Look Box Pleat Skater Skirt, £15.99, Missguided


Cream Floral Bralet, £9.95, Moda Chiara


Flared and high waisted, skater skirts are a wardrobe staple of any curvy girl. Due to how flattering the flared style is, you may be able to get away with a bralet, but a tshirt style crop top will work just as well. Wet-look skater skirts are currently bang on trend, and contrast brilliantly with girly floral prints.
Maddie Midi Length Tube Skirt, £8, Boohoo
Caviar Bead Mesh Top, £26, Topshop



If you're carrying extra weight up top, a tight, midi length skirt allows for you to a hide a multitude of sins by going baggier on the top half. Overlap the crop top and the skirt for a multi-purpose fashionable yet flattering look. However, be careful when deciding if a tight midi skirt is for you, as they do tend to show up all your lumps and bumps.

Remember: fashion's not just for skinny girls, and curvy ladies deserve summer fun too! Always throw away the catwalk manual; getting away with trends is all about adjusting looks to focus on your best bits.

                                              
                            

Saturday, 23 February 2013

10 Reasons to be Happy



February. It’s a dismal time of year. A grey procession of melting snow and endless drizzle, topped only by the return of January exams and Christmas essays, without even the looming promise of summer to get you through.

So after a particularly dreary week I decided a pick-me-up was well and truly needed. Whilst I would normally turn to the fleeting pleasures of internet shopping and New Girl re-runs to lighten my mood, this time something more enlightening was required.

“Happiness is a choice.” I bleated to my down-in-the-dumps housemate earlier today after a cold and uni stress had got the better of her.

And that’s when I realised. I wasn’t just parroting Cosmo’s You You You section; happiness really is a choice. Yes, we can’t all decide whether we land our dream job, date our dream guy or have our dream life. But we can decide whether to be happy with what we’ve got.

So here it goes: my ten reasons and ways to be happy; a sort-of definitive, and mostly tried-and-tested route to a cheerier day. It may not change your life, but here’s hoping it perks up your afternoon.

1. It’s all About the Little Things
Hot baths, a good book, a glass of wine with friends. Maybe even something as little as finding a new lipstick in the exact shade you were looking for, or catching up on your feel-good TV programme.

Life is all about the little surprises and occurrences that brighten your day, and focusing on how something small makes you temporarily happy and fulfilled is the first step to being happy. Every day presents you with a hundred new chances to do something you enjoy, so seize it, and truly love and appreciate the tiny things that make you smile.


2. The World Is Your Oyster
When things aren’t quite going the way you’d always planned (skipping into your dream job straight after graduation anyone?) it’s easy to feel lost. Getting caught up in a spiral of wailing about how my fate clearly lies in moving back in with my parents and working at ASDA forever to anyone who’ll listen is one of my current tics, and clearly it’s easy to forget that your future is what you make it.

True, we can’t always have total control over what career we get, or where we end up, but there are still lots of things we can decide. When the next few years are looking a bit hazy, remember that whether you spend this time wallowing in doubt or looking forward to this new openness is completely down to you.

Dream, plan and travel; maybe you won’t end up doing all the things you want to, but be aware how many possibilities are open to you. Looking forward to the things you can achieve, and maybe even doing a few of them, is the ultimate mood and life lifting experience.
Girls Party Holiday in Zante may not be life-changing travelling but it's close enough!

3.Make the Most of what you’ve got
First World Problems. They’re the hilarious stuff of memes and tweets everywhere, where the privileged get a chance to satirically whine about the problem between finding the perfect balance between a fan and an electric blanket, or how they don’t have the newest iphone.

Whilst most of us are probably guilty of sniggering at the odd non-issue, few of us take the time to consider how much insignificant our own worries are. Chasing after our ideal image of life, it’s easy to get upset when things aren’t quite living up to our lofty expectations.

At times like this, it’s important to take account of the things you do have. Your friends, your family, your education, your health. All factors that not everyone is lucky enough to possess. So next time you get caught up in your hapless love-life or imperfect grades, remember the things you do have, and take the time to make the most of them.

4. Live the Life you Love
Your parents, your teachers, even the media. Everyone seems to have an idea of how your life should be going. The kind of career you should be suited to, the kind of person you should be with, the kind of route your life should take. Most people’s lives quickly become a construction of the expectations of others as soon as they’re old enough to be influenced.

Make sure you frequently take a step back from your life and question your own motives. Maybe what you really want to do is travel instead of diving straight into the rat race. Maybe you want to drop the playing-it-safe life path and take the time to attempt something people said you could never achieve. So what’s stopping you?

One of my best friends recently did a complete u-turn, dropping her applications for a cut-throat city career she’s always planned to apply to be a maths teacher, and she’s never seemed happier or more fulfilled. Make sure the reasons you’re doing something are genuine. You only get one chance at this, so take your own chances, not someone else’s.


5. Surround yourself with the People who Care

Sometimes a friend who gets your sense of humour is all you need...
Seems obvious, but it’s one we all sometimes need reminding of. No one will lift your mood more than a good friend who’s genuinely concerned by your problems, and better yet, no one will offer greater advice. And if not advice, then at least a large glass of wine and a few episodes of Snog Marry Avoid.


6. Happiness is Now
One of my pet-hates is people who make themselves miserable in pursuit of some mythical future where everything will be ecstatically perfect. True, at times we have to sacrifice a fancy-free party lifestyle in order to get where we want to be, but you never have to sacrifice your happiness.

Want to know a secret? Nobody is unremittingly happy. Even if you end up with your dream lifestyle, everyone has down days and up days, and most importantly, being unhappy now won’t make it any better when you get there. So stop wasting your time ‘looking forward’ to the day you’re married with a six-figure salary, and start looking forward to now.

This is how happy new shoes make me
7. Therapy Comes in All Forms
And perhaps most importantly, in the form of retail. OK, so this may be hopelessly materialistic, and I’m certainly not saying that a brand new LBD is the secret to a perfect life. All I’m saying is that there’s always shoes. This is my therapy; find yours. There’ll always be something silly and inconsequential which will become your fail-safe pick-me-up no matter what life throws at you, and if you can work out whether platforms or heels would go best with that new maxi skirt, sometimes the big problems can wait.

8. You are the Key to your Own Happiness
When true unhappiness hits, the kind that makes you not want to crawl out of bed and causes you to question yourself, remember this: the only person who can make a difference to yourself is you. We all have times when we’re truly unhappy with ourselves; the choices we’ve made, the way we live our lives-- and it’s a truly nasty feeling. But you’re lucky and powerful enough to be able to act on it.

Hit the gym for some feel good endorphins, read or listen to something that is beautiful and opens your mind, put your passion into practice and blog or start a band. You are the person who gets to decide who you are, the things you know and do, and the life you live. Make the most of it. 

9. Today is Another Day
Every day is a new opportunity to be happy. Start today.

10. You Are Alive
The world is a beautiful, incredible place. All the things you want or that would make you happy are out there; you just have to find them.


Always remember: happiness isn’t about what you have, it’s about what you make of it. Have a very cheery day!

Friday, 15 February 2013

50 Books to Read Before you Die (Part Five)

10. THE CATCHER IN THE RYE- J.D.SALINGER
The definitive angsty teenage read, The Catcher in the Rye is unmissable. Although written in the 50's, Salinger's stream-of-consciousness novel perfectly captures the confusion of adolescence right up to the present day. Agonisingly alienated, protagonist Holden Caulfield is beautifully and realistically portrayed, making The Catcher in the Rye as moving as it is memorable.

9. TO KILL A MOCKINGBIRD- HARPER LEE
Another incredible work of American fiction, Lee's groundbreaking book has become essential GCSE reading everywhere. However, outside the stilted work of academia, To Kill a Mockingbird is an incredible book, both humorous and heartbreaking. Focusing on the small-town Deep South, To Kill a Mockingbird is brilliantly told through the eyes of  six-year old Scout, giving a poignantly innocent slant on racism and prejudice in a rape case overseen by her lawyer father.

8. CHARLIE AND THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY- ROALD DAHL
Perhaps one of the greatest children's authors, Roald Dahl's books are unremittingly hilarious, imaginative and brilliant. Although his entire catalogue is essential reading, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory is my personal favourite. Eccentric, magical, and perfectly illustrated with the scrawling drawings of Quentin Blake, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory is the story of penniless boy Charlie Bucket, who wins the opportunity to visit the mysterious and fantastical confectionary factory of Willy Wonka. Expect madness and hilarity in this enduring modern classic.

7. ENDURING LOVE- IAN MCEWAN
Another truly beautiful book from Ian McEwan, Enduring Love is one of the most well-written books I have been fortunate enough to encounter. The lyricism of McEwan's prose is perfected in this work about the entanglement created between two strangers after they both witness a fatal event. One becomes increasingly, frighteningly obsessed with the other, due to a condition which makes him believe others are in love with them. Exploring the nature of relationships and disillusion, this novel develops into an unexpected and fresh glance at love.

6. HARRY POTTER SERIES- J.K.ROWLING
It may be something of a cliched choice, but Harry Potter has revolutionised modern reading. Never has a book been so heavily anticipated, or had crowds queuing up for the next installment, and for good cause. In what was originally intended to be a children's book about a boy who finds out he is a wizard, Rowling's books develop into increasingly well-written adult novels across the series, spanning a truly incredibly developed magical world. Absorbing escapist fiction, the Harry Potter books are both dark and scary, and warm and funny in varying shades, striking a perfect balance.

5. GONE WITH THE WIND- MARGARET MITCHELL
A beautiful yet devastating nostalgic portrayal of the nineteenth-century US Deep South, Gone with the Wind is epic historical romance at its very best. Based during and following the American Civil War, Mitchell's only novel focuses on the destruction of the idyllic old money plantation families as a result of war. Featuring one of the most famous, temptuous love stories in literature, Gone with the Wind follows headstrong heroine Scarlett O'Hara through the struggles of rebuilding a life when the charming values and wealth of the Deep South is lost.

4. THE COMPLETE WORKS OF SHAKESPEARE- WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
Although there's a lot of debate as to whether or not Shakespeare is 'overrated,' I've always strongly disagreed, and firmly believe that his complete works deserves its place in my top ten. A rich catalogue of plays and poems, Shakespeare's complete works is an incredibly complex and extraordinarily well-written collection, extending beyond the thematic and literary achievements of almost any writer I've encountered. Although many of Shakespeare's works are remoulded versions of pre-existing stories, his interpretations are intensely thoughtful, displaying the entire spectrum of human thought and emotion in glaring, unimaginable detail. Particularly noteworthy are his tragedy plays, with works such as Othello, Romeo and Juliet and King Lear being some of his most devastating and revealing works.

3. EAST OF EDEN- JOHN STEINBECK
Another truly wonderfully penned book, East of Eden is a novel which contains prose so sensory, intelligent and poetic it barely needs its equally great plot to keep it readable. Focusing on the lives of two families living in the Salinas Valley in California, perhaps the reason why East of Eden ranks so highly in my books is that it contains a character who, in my opinion, is the most incredibly portrayed in American fiction. Cathy Ames, a fascinating and deeply, almost unmitigatingly, evil woman is plotted from childhood to middle age, developing almost monstrously from twisted child to a sexually sadistic seductress and murderess. She is so intently and realistically portrayed, Steinbeck's fantastic creation is what makes this book the masterpiece it remains.

2. THE BRIEF AND WONDROUS LIFE OF OSCAR WAO- JUNOT DIAZ
An incredibly moving work, The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao is the story of three generations of a family from the Dominican Republic. Opening with the novel's title character, an overweight, science fiction obsessed geek living in New Jersey and obsessed with finding love, this epic book moves on to his rebellious sister, the Dominican upbringing and gangster love affair of his mother, and the fate of his grandfather under tyrannical dictator Trujillo. Culturally rich and endlessly exciting, the novel is charmingly punctuated with rambling footnotes and Spanish dialogue, making it a novel reading experience. Although not well known, The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao is a genuinely breathtaking book.

1. WUTHERING HEIGHTS- EMILY BRONTE
Perhaps my inclusion of this book is slightly bias considering it's the major topic of my dissertation and thus more or less consuming my life at the minute. However, irrespective of my own favour, Emily Bronte's soaring Gothic novel is a defining work of Victorian fiction. Divided into two sections broadly focusing on two generations of two interlinked families, it is perhaps most famous for the tempestuous affair between doomed lovers Cathy and Heathcliff. Wuthering Heights is a brutal and tumultuous novel, exploring class and marriage in the nineteenth century. Passionate and unforgiving in its treatment of love and death, it is one of the great dramatic reads.

Monday, 11 February 2013

Heels and Heartbreak

 Judging by my complete obsession with beautiful footwear, this blog has been a long time coming. I'm the kind of girl who will happily forfeit lunch for a week in pursuit of THAT pair of heels, and heaven forbid I should purchase a sensible pair of flats to replace the battered ballet pumps I've been hobbling around in when I could be splurging on gravity defying, skyscraping stilettos.

However, I fear that the standard rant about my unrequited love for Louboutins (strictly pining away at a distance) and a gleeful showcase of my own shoe collection has probably been a little overdone in the blog-sphere. So instead I've decided that far more apt would be a homage to the healing virtues of a good pair of shoes; the comforting power of a good platform and the warm fuzzy feeling of a fresh-out-its-box boot.

So rather than bombarding you with pics of my latest purchases, I've decided to show to you lucky viewers today a shoe collection with heart. From my battered kitten heels I bought alongside my first heartbreak when I was fifteen (now so well worn they've lost a good inch off the heels) to my help-me-I'm a-grown-up panic buys, this is a look-in on the shoe collection that's seen me through the saddest and most stressful times of my life, and brought me out the other side still strutting my stuff and feeling incredible.



Now, as every shoe-loving girl will know there is no better pick-me-up than a good pair of heels. As irresistibly comforting as chocolate and Gossip Girl on a weekday night, splashing out on that new Topshop slingback gives you all the warm gooey feelings of good old-fashioned retail therapy, whilst also granting a much needed confidence boost. Having been unceremoniously dumped, there is nothing better than throwing on a shiny new pair of leg-lengthening, bum-lifting shoes and proclaiming to your full length mirror how utterly gorgeous you look, and that it is clearly his loss.

A quick glance at my shoe collection is a look-in on my soul. True, there's also a lot of gifts and manic sale buys in there, but the pictured heels are a carefully selected showcase of the shoes that have been my therapy since my first standard issue Clarks school shoe gained an inch of height.

Progressively becoming more extreme from the semi-sensible scuffed lace up heels of the floundering of a college romance to my most recent staggering six-inch patent stiletto, height has coincided with the progressively more mature themes of my problems. And although a scarlet shoe I can only just about walk in might not solve my oh-no-I'm-very-soon-going-to-be-a-jobless-graduate stress, it certainly helps.
     


Unfortunately the fashion side of this is going to be a little on the staid side since all the pictured shoes hail from New Look. However, I can't promote their heels highly enough; with a much bigger range than most high street shops, New Look heels are beautifully budget friendly from around £19-£25 and have a fabulous variety of classic and fashion-friendly styles. They're also better than most places at providing a much needed lift with a generous platform at the front for those extra few inches. They're not incredibly durable, but I've had most of mine re-heeled and they've lasted me through the years.

So forget Ben and Jerrys and Bridget Jones, feel beautiful and get yourself some shoe-therapy.